
Getting to Know Footsteps
Learn more about the experiences of Footsteps members and the worlds they come from with the below resources:
Books:
- All Who Go Do Not Return, by Shulem Deen
A moving and revealing exploration of Hasidic life, and one man’s struggles with faith, family, and community. - Hidden Heretics: Jewish Doubt in a Digital Age, by Ayala Fader
A revealing look at Jewish men and women who secretly explore the outside world, in person and online, while remaining in their ultra-Orthodox religious communities.
- Unchosen: The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels, by Hella Winston
An exploration of Hasidic Jews struggling to live within their restrictive communities—and, in some cases, to carve out a new life beyond them - Degrees of Separation: Identity Formation While Leaving Ultra-Orthodox Judaism, by Schneur Zalman Newfield
Those who exit a religion—particularly one they were born and raised in—often find themselves at sea in their efforts to transition to life beyond their community. In Degrees of Separation, Schneur Zalman Newfield, who went through this process himself, interviews seventy-four Lubavitch and Satmar ultra-Orthodox Hasidic Jews who left their communities.
- Becoming Eve: My Journey from Ultra-Orthodox Rabbi to Transgender Woman, by Abby Stein
The powerful coming-of-age story of an ultra-Orthodox child who was born to become a rabbinic leader and instead became a woman. - Cut Me Loose: Sin and Salvation After My Ultra-Orthodox Girlhood, by Jericho Vincent
A raw and electrifying memoir about a young person’s journey from self-destruction to redemption, after cutting ties with their ultra-Orthodox Jewish family. - Uncovered: How I Left Hasidic Life and Finally Came Home, by Leah Lax
Told in understated, crystalline prose, Leah Lax begins her story as a young teen leaving her secular home to become a hasidic Jew, then plumbs the nuances of her arranged marriage, fundamentalist faith, and hasidic motherhood as, all the while, creative, sexual, and spiritual longings tremble beneath the surface.
Films and Documentaries:
- One of Us
In the wake of trauma and abuse, three Hasidic Jews face ostracism, anxiety and danger as they attempt to leave their ultra-Orthodox community.
- Ultra-Orthodox kids deserve better, The New York Daily News
Articles:
- In Hasidic Enclaves, Failing Private Schools Flush With Public Money, The New York Times
- When One Parent Leaves a Hasidic Community, What Happens to the Kids?, The New Yorker
- When Living Your Truth Can Mean Losing Your Children, The New York Times
- Ultra-Orthodox kids deserve better, The New York Daily News
Podcasts:
- Should Jews Criticize Jews in Public?, Identity Crisis – The Hartman Institute
- Navigating Divorce Within Religious Communities, The New Yorker Radio Hour
Footsteps Webinars and Panel Discussions:
Footsteps hosted a virtual conversation about the challenges parents face when they leave insular ultra-Orthodox communities — both in the courtroom and in their communities of origin.
As we emerge from the confines of the last eighteen months, a changing landscape with new realities for the formerly ultra-Orthodox has taken shape. What does the journey look like today?
- Choice & Change: Breakthroughs and the Road Ahead
How has the ultra-Orthodox community changed in recent years, and how does that impact the needs of those seeking self-determined lives? In light of those changes, how can Footsteps and the broader movement of those leaving ultra-Orthodoxy meet those needs?
Member Programs
As a member, you have access to:
Clinical Support
Education
Career Services
Family Justice Initiative
Community Engagement
Communications + Field Building
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